We found out a couple of months ago that Evie has almost grown out off her current set of spinal rods. It was not a surprise, and we were pleased to be able to pick the date for the surgery we wanted, mid-year, to fit in with school holidays, and a good amount of time to recover before end of year activities and high school.
As Australia followed the rest of the world into shut down due to Covid-19, like many others, I've been struggling with the new reality of having the kids learning from home, whilst I try to work from home as well. There was also the added worry of keeping Evie away from the virus due to her lung condition.
Then a phone call came. All elective surgeries had been cancelled. However Evie's spinal surgery did not fall in that category, as she would not last indefinitely without the new rods to allow her body to grow. As such, her surgery was made Category 1, and we had a new date, April 17. This added another added layer of anxiety.
Of course, as many of you know, the prospect of surgery in itself is extremely hard. Those who know us, or have read previous posts would know that the pain for Evie is extrordinary, and me watching her, it is awful. Add in the additional risk of Covid-19, a hospital in lockdown which means Jon and Sam can't visit, not being able to see grandparents, or stay with them after for more recovery time, all this is overwhelming to say the least.
The last couple of weeks have been hard, and will be until after this is all over. So many aspects about what is going on at the moment are completely out of my control. All I can do is trust God that Evie is in His hands. Whilst hard, it is a comfort to know I need not fear, but I can call out to Him in hard times.
This Psalm from the Bible is so comforting right now.
Psalm 46
1 God is our refuge and strength,
an ever-present help in trouble.
2 Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way
and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea,
3 though its waters roar and foam
and the mountains quake with their surging.
4 There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God,
the holy place where the Most High dwells.
5 God is within her, she will not fall;
God will help her at break of day.
6 Nations are in uproar, kingdoms fall;
he lifts his voice, the earth melts.
7 The Lord Almighty is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress.
8 Come and see what the Lord has done,
the desolations he has brought on the earth.
9 He makes wars cease
to the ends of the earth.
He breaks the bow and shatters the spear;
he burns the shields with fire.
10 He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
11 The Lord Almighty is with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress
Two weeks ago Evelyne had another major surgery to remove her old Magec rods and insert new longer rods. Since her first surgery, Evie has been lengthened every 3 months, and reached the end length of her rods sooner than expected. A result of a Beals Syndome catch 22. Whilst the flexibility in the connective tissue is what made Evelyne's spine super bendy in the first place, the flexibility also meant her surgeon could straighten her relatively quickly, thus running out of length.
Leading up to the surgery Evie (and myself) were very anxious. Unfortunately having been through it before meant we were not looking forward to the surgery or aftermath. Anticipating the pain she would be in was the main worry. We distracted ourselves by planning a brilliant 9th birthday party the weekend before. As well as a bit of activity planning, relaxation oils, music downloads and lots of prayer.
The operation was longer than expected, so Jon and I were pleased when the surgeon emerged to tell us it was all over and she was in recovery. He informed us that much to his surprise, the existing screws had come loose in her spine. In his wording, two were extremely loose and one was "swinging in the breeze"! He was surprised that she had not been experiencing associated pain. We had hoped the surgeon would be able to just replace the actual rods, however, he had to remove all 4 screws, with 3 larger diameter screws, whilst having to drill a new hole for the 4th. He was happy that the anchors were now very secure and as a result she won't have the same restrictions as her first surgery. He was also confident that her recovery would be quicker than last time. All in all, very positive news.
The following days in hospital were still painful and long. Long days and nights with frequent repositioning required. Evie also had some issues with pressure injuries this time, but as an OT, I'm glad to be in the right industry to know how to deal with these! We were prepared with movies, music and audio books, and the DVD stand was again a godsend. Overall, everyone was pleased with her progress and she was able to get up and walk earlier than last time. The surgeon was happy with her x-rays, so we left hospital on her birthday with a bit of determination to get out of there!
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| Heading home |
For the last week Evie and I have stayed in Sydney, at our 'home away from home'. My parents have opened up their home, and in fact partially designed their house with Evelyne's medical appointments and recoveries in mind. I am so grateful to have this provision, and my mum to look after us! We have enjoyed many hours of colouring, visits from cousins, craft activities, movies, and our now tradition of her first outing to Cold Rock Icecream. It has been a smoother process this time, knowing what the main issues would be. So were well set up with a lowered bed, lots of pillows, shower chair and toilet rails brought from home.
Today we have finally made the trip home to Bathurst. Dosed up on pain meds and lots of pillows, it is always sad to leave my parents, but will be so good to be home!
One of the major benefits of Magec rods is the fact that they can be lengthened externally. Each rod has a small motor that is activated magnetically via remote control and will expand the rod to a predetermined length. This means that the rods can lengthened to suit the amount she's growing, as well as the surgeon being able to lengthen one side more than the other to gradually correct the spine.
Evelyne has been having lengthenings every 3 months since the rods were placed in January 2016.
Whilst it is so much better than surgery, it is still painful. The first lengthening was especially painful. Possibly due to the length of time since surgery, possibly due to recent bone work and bone grafts, possibly her spine may have been starting to fuse in places. Yet again we weren't prepared for it to be painful. I had been told by other parents that lengthenings were pain free, but unfortunately this was not our experience. Each time the pain has lessened, and now we give her pain medication before we go.
Today was Evelyne's 6th lengthening. To our surprise, it turns out today was the last lengthening for this set of rods. As she was so small when her surgeon first inserted the rods, he was only able to fit the smaller length in. We had thought we had a bit more time before the next surgery, but it is now to be scheduled for September. The good news is, the doctor anticipates that he will be able to keep the current screws in place and just replace the rods to the longer version. This will result in a slightly shorter surgery, and hopefully shorter recovery.
A few tears from Evie today as she thought of another surgery. Last time we saw the surgeon and he mentioned another surgery soon, I said "I only just got over the last one!" To which Evie replied "I still haven't gotten over it!
I was recently reminded of a previous blog post of mine Dealing with disappointment. Whilst some appointments and parts of this journey are disappointing, it is good to remind myself how far she's come since 2011, as well as remind myself that God is indeed in control, and find comfort in that.
A painting Evie made for her doctor today. He affectionately calls her "E.B"
